My buddy McRat has also had issues in the past trying for super long poles. I don’t think he really found a viable solution. The only thing I can think of would require a few more people, and that would be having people hold your guy lines as you raise the pole up so as to counter and stabilize. If you have three guy lines, and assuming 2 people raising and adding sections then this means a minimum of 5 people.
Don’t know if that helps.